DIVORCED CHURCH
As Jesus’s return draws near, it is certain that evil and deceit will worsen (2 Tim. 3:13), even among those who claim to be Christians. Just as in the days of Noah and Lot—when humanity’s mindset was continually evil (Gen. 6:5)—our world is permeated by rampant pride, self-serving attitudes, and indifference toward the needs of others (Ezekiel 16:48-50). Violence and moral corruption are becoming more commonplace.
As Jesus’s ambassadors, we believe the gathering of believers should be a refuge for persecuted followers of Christ, not a place of added burdens. When one member suffers, the whole body is affected. Therefore, we seek to be a light in the darkness—a refuge for the oppressed and a voice against the strongholds and traditions of men that promote oppression rather than peace. Our hope is to restore hearts and minds with truth, so that those under attack can be healed and equipped to stand firm against evil while abiding in the peace that surpasses understanding.
Every story is as unique as the individuals within it, yet God’s mercy, love, and grace remain steadfast. He has given us evidence of this by sending His Son, Jesus, to pursue us as His bride. We worship a God of redemption. Jesus sought out and healed the marginalized, setting captives free. Being full of grace and truth, we reflect Him when we embody these qualities. However, His grace and compassion do not exist apart from His truth and justice. We passionately strive to protect and care for the wounded while also calling others to repentance.
Because the Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, we seek to be one as well—binding up the broken and providing a trauma-sensitive space for healing and growth. In this antagonistic world, we long to be a place where love and peace abound. While we recognize that God has called us to peace, we also acknowledge the battles we must face. Our aim is to equip the saints with wisdom to fight the good fight in love and righteousness—good shepherds care for the sheep while also warning of danger.
As dedicated Christians who have experienced divorce, it is our honor to encourage and uplift those who have endured separation, are struggling in marriage, or are facing relationships that do not reflect Christ’s love. Equipped to discern the dynamics that lead to abuse and destruction, we earnestly seek to walk alongside those caught in—or recovering from—the “fog” of that war. Whether you are in the trenches, on the battlefield, or a wounded soldier trying to rebuild, we hope to provide a safe place to regain strength and commune with fellow sufferers.
We take seriously the need for leaders to be aware of abusive dynamics, convinced that if churches understood the pathology of power and control, they would overcome the stigma of saying, “‘Peace, peace,’ when there is no peace,” to fellow believers who suffer daily persecution.
If you are currently in—or exiting—an abusive relationship, you are not alone. You are precious to our Savior and to us. We share your tears and hope to provide a safe community where you can heal and thrive.